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Rousal desire and orgasm Cutting edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life is not what you do in bed or how you do it but how you feel about it Which means that stress mood trust and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it Once you understand these factors and how to influence them you can create for yourself better sex and profound pleasure than you ever thought possibleAnd Emily Nagoski can prove it. 2 stars Meh Just okI love the concept behind this book and it started off very interesting and introduced several facts of which I was not previously aware Unfortunately it then became a long repetitive read with the bulk majority of the information being mostly common sense and started to feel like a self help book vs a nonfiction book on a fascinating topic I found myself doing a lot of skimming on the back half wondering if there would be another interesting chapter coming up like the start of the book but the back 75% was rather dull for me Worth a read if you feel clueless in this area Favorite uote Women have cultural permission to criticize ourselves but we are punished if we praise ourselves if we dare to say that we like ourselves the way we areFirst Sentence To be a sex educator is to be asked uestions Smoke and Mirrors Short Fiction and Illusions orgasm Cutting edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life is not what you do in bed Brenda has a dragon in her blood or how you do it but how you feel about it Which means that stress mood trust and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it Once you understand these factors and how to influence them you can create for yourself better sex and profound pleasure than you ever thought possibleAnd Emily Nagoski can prove it. 2 stars Meh Just Divan Of Rudaki okI love the concept behind this book and it started Choice Stories for Children off very interesting and introduced several facts Öbür Divan of which I was not previously aware Unfortunately it then became a long repetitive read with the bulk majority Summary of Homo Deus of the information being mostly common sense and started to feel like a self help book vs a nonfiction book Koldbrann - parte 1: Rebeldes on a fascinating topic I found myself doing a lot The Teams Milking Cow of skimming A Wolfs Desire Reluctant Mates on the back half wondering if there would be another interesting chapter coming up like the start Via Suez (British): Blue Funnel Line (Merchant Navy Series Book 3) of the book but the back 75% was rather dull for me Worth a read if you feel clueless in this area Favorite uote Women have cultural permission to criticize Zenith ourselves but we are punished if we praise A Pale Light in the Black ourselves if we dare to say that we like

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Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Er thought possible and Come as You Are explains it allThe first lesson in this essential transformative book by Dr Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own uniue sexuality like a fingerprint and that women vary than men in our anatomy our sexual response mechanisms and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world So we never need to judge ourselves based on others’ experiences Because women vary and that’s normalSecond lesson sex happens in a context And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s a. The information in this book is solid gold A copy should be put in the hands of every person ideally before they ve had sexual contact with another person But BUT The metaphors Dear Lord the metaphors We have sexuality as an accelerator and brakes sexuality as an overgrown garden sexuality as a hot water heater complex feelings as a sleeping hedgehog sexual interest as a customers seeking a diner sexual expectations as a touchy monitor tapping her fingernails our brains as a flock of birds and SO MANY OTHERS I CAN T EVEN REMEMBER I understand and applaud what Nagoski is doing in terms of wanting to convey big complicated cognitive functions in relatable prose But it touches a nerve for me when writers anthropomorphize female sexuality I find it infantilizing I m a big girl just tell me what my brain is doing I can read about chemicals and neurons and whatnot I don t need to imagine my brain as a lion and my pelvis as a caveman or whatever other nonsense So 5 stars for the content 4 stars for the chatty conversational writing style which did not annoy me but will probably polarize some readers and 1 star for the overworked metaphors

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An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works based on groundbreaking research and brain science that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joyResearchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a “pink pill” for women to function like Viagra does for men So where is it Well for reasons this book makes crystal clear that pill will never exist but as a result of the research that’s gone into it scientists in the last few years have learned about how women’s sexuality works than we ev. 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10 thoughts on “Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

  1. says:

    All right so this is not the book I thought it was when I got it and I apologise for a rating that would surely be higher

  2. says:

    Ok when I saw the tile of this book it thought probably what everyone else though about this book Ok the introduction and chapter 8 and appendix one might be but the rest is science over myth If it did not come so highly recommended from a respected friend of mine from uni I probably would not every given it the first look Read is as some light reading doing her PhD in Psychology So of course she decided to experiment on her frien

  3. says:

    It’s hard not to love a book with a pseudo vagina on the front; it’s even harder not to love that same book for smashing all the preconceived ideas we have about female and by comparison male sexuality Like for example did you kno

  4. says:

    The information in this book is solid gold A copy should be put in the hands of every person ideally before they've had sexual contact with another person But BUT The metaphors Dear Lord the metaphors We have sexuality as an acceler

  5. says:

    Come As You Are is absolutely the best book I've ever read not just on sex but on life and well being in general Why read another book on sex? Because Emily describes how your brain and your life work together to create desire and how to experience pleasure joy and confidence with your relationships AND with sex But this isn't the u

  6. says:

    Books like this are why I LOVE non fictionThis should be reuired reading on female sexuality both for those with vaginas and those who are int

  7. says:

    Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life is a nonfiction self help book written by sex educator researcher and author Emily Nagoski It educates about a variety of issues that impact women's sexuality and while some of it got uite repetitive in my opinion and I didn't uite take away as much new information as I expected to I'm glad I read it My favorite part discussed how the model of sexual response is b

  8. says:

    2 stars Meh Just okI love the concept behind this book and it started off very interesting and introduced several facts of which I wa

  9. says:

    For some women I have no doubt this would be a life changing book I definitely learned some cool stuff things I am pissed that I did not know because patriarchy But I guess I'm lucky enough that I don't really need the 'self help' of this book to help with my sex life and this aspect is really the meat of the b

  10. says:

    Updating review I wrote this review almost five years ago I'm cringing at using lady parts I still stick to my five star review it helped me open up a lot sexually I still recommend it to everyone whether you identify as

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